Rei ("Etiquette)

Blue Spruell, (Peachtree Aikikai Atlanta)

www.peachtreeaikikai.com

Training is intensely physical and, at times, the philosophical and spiritual aspects of aikido may seem subordinate to sweat. Nevertheless, a sine qua non, spiritual or otherwise, of aikido, as with any traditional martial art, is rei.

Rei has many meanings. Without delving too deeply into the subtleties of the Japanese language and depending upon the context, it might mean "manners", "etiquette", "courtesy", "respect", or "a bow as a sign of respect". Rei is an integral part of practice. Without it, training is meaningless.

Training begins and ends with etiquette. Literally speaking, every class begins and ends with a bow. This is simply a student's way of acknowledging that he or she is entering a sacred world apart from the everyday, showing thanks and respect for the opportunity to take part in a truly special art. Figuratively speaking, only the true heart and mind can train properly. What teacher would want to impart knowledge and experience to anyone with half an attitude? Not so long ago, a hopeful student had to "sit on the doorstep" to win the favor and confidence of a master, waiting day after day until the teacher decided that the student was serious about training.

Practice makes perfect. Training is the best way to perfect rei. We do not often discuss the spiritual aspects of the martial arts because they shine best when we apply ourselves. Talk is cheap. The study of aikido is exceedingly existential. To steal yet another line: "One percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration". The next time you bow, relish the significance of rei. Without it, there can be no lesson.